My friend Scott J had a great post on Facebook today regarding which NFL player would you want your child to idolize. It was based on the fact the media and others are bashing Tim Tebow for being a regular nice guy.
Yet we makes hero’s out of gangsters and dog killers. It isn’t right.
I then started thinking about a couple of men that I know that don’t like to be called “a nice guy”. They think it makes them less sexy or alluring to women. I think that is crap.
If you want to attract bad girls then be a bad guy. If you want a nice girl, be nice. That is the way with life.
In my experience the nice guy is the most fun in the long run because there is less drama and usually a nice guy has some bad boy in him. Besides, Bad Boys have very little respect for anyone else. I have no time for that.
If people want to make fun of being nice and good and kind and respectful then their lives are limited and they are jealous. It has to be that. Jealousy that their lives aren’t as full.
“We begin to find and become ourselves when we notice how we are already found, already truly, entirely, wildly, messily, marvelously who we were born to be.”
Trust me, trying to be who you are not is too much work and you are always, eventually, found out.